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The best 40th birthday gifts to help them get the milestone started off right
They say 40 is the new 30, but when it comes to gifting, people can sometimes confuse the decades. While people in their 20s are expecting popular, trend-related gifts, people celebrating their 40th birthday are often more focused on upgrading their lifestyle on some level. Whether they're focusing on their fitness routine, upgrading their home decor or improving their financial skills, 40-year-olds want gifts that are fun and youthful, yet useful.
Searching for the perfect present for your family member or friend? We're here to help you get started with this list of 40th birthday gift ideas for men and women that will delight every kind of celebrant.
No matter if you're shopping for a golf-loving husband, wife who enjoys self-care or friend who works from home, these 40th birthday gifts will definitely leave a lasting impact.
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Best 40th birthday gifts for women
InstaNatural Vitamin C Toner
Help her start the new decade with a bright foundation. Made with witch hazel, lavender and other botanicals, the brand says this ultra-cleansing toner will help fight against signs of aging. "My skin looks hydrated and smoother instantly so glad I tried this product," wrote one reviewer.
Moroccanoil Shower Gel Cleanser
Treat her to some lux in her shower. Shop TODAY Editorial Page Ellen Abraham loves this, saying, "it's an affordable luxury that smells amazing and leaves your skin smooth. With the signature Moroccanoil scent, this product is one of the best body washes for gentle and sensitive skin."
AOA Studio Paw Paw Collection Gift Set
If she's the type who loves staying at home, she will appreciate all the beauty goodies. It comes with slippers, a highlighter set, a handheld mirror and more.
Anastasia Beverly Hills Mini Spice Eyeshadow Palette
The best things in life come with sparkles, and this palette does not fall short. Abraham uses this and says, "this timeless eyeshadow palette has everything you need for everyday looks and glammed-up styles."
Laneige On-the-Glow Balm Trio
Help her keep her lips hydrated and moisturized with this limited-edition lip balm trio from Laneige. Perfect for all seasons, this set comes packed with three of the brand’s most popular Lip Glowy Balms in berry, gummy bear and vanilla.
Dearfoams EZ Feet Scuff Slipper
Her feet will be singing the moment she slips into these cozy slippers after her big birthday party. These slides are made with 100 percent Australian sheepskin lining with plush cushioning.
Kate Loxton Amalfi Crossbody Bag
For the fashion-forward lady in your life, give her a chic purse that she can wear day and night. The bag is made with canvas and a a luxe vegan leather material. As a bonus, you can personalize it for just $7.
The Comfy Original Oversized Microfiber & Sherpa Wearable Blanket
Someone who's always cold deserves a wearable blanket. The Comfy fits about anyone and can be worn indoors or outdoors. It provides extra comfort with high-quality sherpa and can be used also as a pillow.
Bala Bangles
If free weights at the gym aren't making her feel the burn, give her a cardio boost with these stylish elastic bands. Bala Bangles have quickly become a bestseller for their versatility — she can wear them on her wrists or ankles, or add them to a bag for extra weight.
Anthropologie Gianna Grecian Bust Pot
For plant moms looking to upgrade their indoor garden, this Grecian-inspired planter will give a touch of glamour to their greenery. The hand-painted pots come in two different sizes to improve their blooming activities.
Sahira Jewelry Design Daria Hoops
Jewelry is a classic birthday gift, and these gold hoops are the perfect addition to her accessory repertoire. The earrings are made of a tarnish-free material and can easily match with her regular wardrobe rotation.
Artis Fini Cosmetic Brush
If her makeup brushes need an upgrade, this blending brush is for her. “I’d heard so many firends talk about Artis brushes,” says Shop TODAY editor Rebecca Brown. “I tried it and I’m so happy — it’s the perfect tool for blending. Superior to any other tool I own.”
Sweejar Store Porcelain Tea Sets British Royal Series
Lovers of historical dramas and the royal family will adore this regal tea set. It comes with a feminine teapot, teacups, saucers, a sugar bowl, a cream pitcher and a stainless-steel tea strainer. Now that's a great way to spill some tea!
Stilosa Espresso Machine by Delonghi
A good cup of coffee can make any morning or day better. If they consider themselves a coffee connoisseur, this affordable espresso machine makes a great gift. Senior Partnership Editor, Francesca Cocchi Zabloudil says, "there's truly no better way to start my day."
Renée Rouleau Triple Berry Smoothing Peel
Looking for a high quality product she will use all the time? This product proves to be the best at-home chemical peel that is the perfect reset at the end of her day. Not only does it help fade hyperpigmentation, the brightening antioxidant-rich berries leave skin feeling fresh and glowy. "I use this peel weekly and it has transformed my skin. It is best paired with a hydrating moisturizer or serum and a face oil," says Abraham.
Aerangis Discovery Journey Gift Set
If one candle isn't enough, then this set will whisk her away to a whimsical paradise. It comes with three signature scents, a complimentary wick trimmer, candle care card and scent story card for a sublime aromatherapy experience.
New York Times Custom Birthday Book
If she still gets the newspaper regularly delivered to her, she’ll appreciate this custom book from “The New York Times.” The collection features the front pages from every year since their birth, so it’ll be a great conversation starter for whoever flips through it.
Vera Bradley Weekender Travel Bag
This quilted weekender is roomy enough to take on short trips and made with nylon it is pretty durable for travel days.
Hatch Restore Smart Sleep Assistant
This atypical alarm clock from Hatch will surely help night owls secure some much-needed zzz’s. The sleep assistance will help her program her night routine better and eliminate any distractions. Plus, it combines a sound machine, sunrise alarm, smart light, meditation app and an alarm clock for the ultimate zen environment.
Lilysilk Trimmed Silk Women Long-Sleeve Pajamas Set
For the woman who needs more beauty sleep in her life, give her this luxury pajama set from Lilysilk. The lightweight set is made with 100 percent grade 22 Momme Charmeuse silk for the ultimate comfort during their slumbers.
Best 40th birthday gifts for men
Ostrichpillow Go Neck Pillow
If he loves traveling, gift him this plush neck pillow that will support his neck through his journey. The Ostrichpillow offers a 360-degree design for ultimate comfort and is made with high-quality memory foam that'll bring him to dreamland during even the bumpiest turbulence.
Personalized Bourbon Barrel Flight with Glasses
For the man who loves to entertain, this bourbon barrel flight will elevate his hosting skills. It comes with four glasses where he can serve his favorite scotch or display it on his coffee table.
Ember Temperature Control Smart Mug²
Complete his work-from-home setup with this smart mug. No need for him to pause the video on his virtual meetings to take a sip when he can keep his beverage warm for longer. One customer raved about this cup because it “truly keeps my beverage at the same set temperature long enough for me to enjoy every last drop and at my pace!”
Mark & Graham Personalized Ball Gift Set
Let him score in style with these personalized golf balls. The set comes with a dozen tees, balls and pencils for the avid golfer looking to impress his teammate.
Samsonite Omni PC Hard-Side Expandable Luggage
Upgrade his travel gear with this 20-inch expandable carry-on luggage. It's scratch-resistant, thanks to the micro-diamond polycarbonate casing, and there are mounted TSA locks on the side to protect his belongings.
Jabra Evolve2 65 UC Wireless Headphone
If he seems to always be on a call, this headset is the perfect gift to keep them focused. He will feel the difference the minute he blocks his ears with this wireless headset featuring noise-canceling powers.
AirPods Pro 2
Shoppers can't get over these AirPods Pro 2 for their noise-canceling features and modern design. If the man in your life needs a new way to listen to music, this gift is a plus. The pair is sweat- and water-resistant — ideal for avid runners or gym buffs.
Unique 40th birthday gifts for her
Nevlers Natural Pink Himalayan Salt Lamp
Help them brighten up a room with this glowing salt lamp, which the brand says is designed to promote a healthy and relaxing atmosphere at home.
Lodge 10.25 Inch Cast Iron Pre-Seasoned Skillet
Every home chef needs a great cast iron skillet to make delicious stews and desserts. Senior SEO editor, Jess Bender has had her skillet for years and mentions, "for the quality you're getting, the price point is a major steal compared to similar versions that are available on the market."
Stony Clover Lane Glitter Varsity The Beverly Hills Hotel Entrance Patch
Accessories brand Stoney Clover Lane recently teamed up with the iconic The Beverly Hills Hotel to create a small-batch collection of lifestyle goodies inspired by the legendary property. This adorable patch is one of 10, many of which are already sold out.
Ten Wilde Name Plate Necklace
West Coast-based designer Tenisha Wilde creates stunning pieces that look way more expensive than they are. This gold-dipped necklace will hold a special place in anyone's heart — customize it with a name or initials.
Bandolier Ariel Wristlet
Could she use an everyday accessory that helps her pare down the essentials? This popular zip pouch is perfect for just the phone and credit cards.
Creative 40th birthday gift ideas
100 Movies Scratch Off Poster
Help them make this the year they finally see all 100 iconic films on this list.
Kusini Electric Fondue Pot Set
Dinner at home takes on new meaning when they have a fondue pot waiting for them for dessert. It comes with four skewers, a dipping tray and a serving tray.
Vintage Candy Co. 40th Birthday Retro Candy Gift Box
Send them on a trip down memory lane with this retro-inspired assortment of nostalgic sweets, including Fun Dip, Laffy Taffy and Big League Chew.
Goldbelly Subscription
Goldbelly ships meals from some of America's most iconic restaurants. If they've ever been to Russ & Daughters or even Shake Shack, they'll love this tasty gift.
Beast Blender
Making smoothies just got a whole lot easier thanks to this blender and travel cup combo that has you making a smoothie and drinking it in seconds.
Lettuce Grow The Farmstand
If they're regulars at the farmer's market and know all their local growers, they'll appreciate this all-in-one stand that essentially sets them up to grow their own greens. The Farmstand makes growing vegetables indoors easier than ever, and reviewers find it much easier than traditional gardening. One Shop TODAY editor said, "I've found myself excited to get home from work to see how much my plants have grown during the day. I've never been so excited to eat a salad in my life."
How we chose
The Shop TODAY editors and writers search the internet to find the best gifts for 40-year-olds out there. We interview expert sources, comb through customer reviews and even use our own personal experiences to make shopping easier for our readers.
Don’t forget to check out Shop TODAY’s other gift guides to find the perfect gift for anyone on your list | 21-year-olds | 20-year-olds | 19-year-olds | 18-year-olds | stimulating gifts for seniors |
